Experience is a general term used for describing "street smarts," often further into mastering an area of learning, and after the educational, "book learning" parts.  It often takes us from novice to expert at something. However, in Romantic Dynamics, we use experience specifically as a way of describing the kind of data that we take in, learn, amalgamate and arrange in various branch points of association with other learning we have done, accessible to our "Right Brain," much like the internet is accessible to us. This is a type of data, then, that fills our memory and our intellectual apparatus responsible for creativity, art, multifactorial learning, and "parallel processing" of information. Think like an surfer, not an accountant.

Experience is like the data "substance" that fills the "tank," which we call the Right Brain. It is street smarts, future-based, and helps us in steering ourselves toward goals with an ability at adaptibility, flexibility, efficiency by risk reduction and creative changes of strategy toward our goals (much like a successful surfer.)

Consider the "experience" of being a high school quarterback. In that one experience, a person learns all kinds of skills - those specific to football, but also leadership skills, skills of commanding a group, taking responsibility, team spirit maintenance, and how to engage in conflict.  Such skills are of high, flexible, adaptive FUTURE use in a myriad of tasks, like being a military captain (or captain of a college or pro football team), running for political office, being the CEO of a company and many other future tasks. This makes experience invaluable in many ways compared to book smarts, or education (although we can't be successful without that either.)

In Romantic Dynamics, we use the model of flying an airplane with a pilot who is "right-brained." He or she will tend to fly all kinds of zany, exploratory directions, forgetting all about the original destination, sometimes without regard to timeliness, accuracy or specific goals and times to reach goals. However, such a "pilot" would be adaptable and gifted at avoiding foul weather, turbulence and congestion of traffic along the way. It is flexible thinking, but has a flaw in its lack of accuracy, timeliness, efficient allocation of resources and yet is priceless as a strength in getting all the way to our goals, through circumstances we often do not control.

It is possible to be "intellectually narcissistic" as well as emotionally narcissistic" in our social relations, and the way that this may happen on account of Right-brained experience is to treat others with "ignorance" or "rudeness." We tend to be ignorant of something true of others or their beliefs when we see our vision as more important or comprehensive than theirs. We also may tend to waste the time, energy or money of others on account of our right-brained dominance. Instead, when we are mature of character and virtuous, we use our Right Brain for the best purpose, which is "imagination."

Lover (melancholic) and Magician (sanguine) personalities will tend to be the most right-brained, and gifted at using experience in goign for goals. Meanwhile, Kings and Queens (phlegmatic) as well as Warriors (choleric) will tend to be the most left-brained and gifted at being precise, logical and analytical in going for goals.