Aspiration is a combination of the skill of curiosity with the trait of having eyes on goals. Curiosity, you may remember, is largely composed of the core psychological skill of Observing Ego, paired with an educated eye, full of "left brain" ability for detail, history, and organization. Goals, you may recall, pertain to actual accomplishments that we do not yet attain, own or control, which makes the attaining [Read more...] about Aspiration

When we use assertiveness, we are literally transforming the negative emotional energy of anger into positive energy, called, "well-being."  This form of self-esteem is defined as a feeling of comfort and satisfaction, as one's needs are met, a feeling of the maternal, or of being mothered. And so assertiveness is how mature adults, "mother themselves."

It is a constructive, "win/win" decision to make with one's anger, and takes mature character [Read more...] about Assertiveness