When we use assertiveness, we are literally transforming the negative emotional energy of anger into positive energy, called, "well-being." This form of self-esteem is defined as a feeling of comfort and satisfaction, as one's needs are met, a feeling of the maternal, or of being mothered. And so assertiveness is how mature adults, "mother themselves."
It is a constructive, "win/win" decision to make with one's anger, and takes mature character [Read more...] about Assertiveness