While the Primitive, or Pathological Defenses are likely bans against you even dating a person, let alone forming a commitment with them, the Immature Defenses, which one can fall into a tiny bit here and there, might be an occurrence you are able to work with and occasionally tolerate and correct. It will be a question of frequency and degree. If they are rampant and pervasive, you might as well [Read more...] about Immature Ego Defenses