The Gaia Instinct comes from the most primordial and powerful force in femininity, and one which has no language and not many stories to it, because she is Mother Earth, herself. She gives birth to the hills and the sky without a father, and mates with her equal, Uranus, the sky, to form everything else. To women today, this is her unique connection to nature and to the most primitive [Read more...] about Gaia Instinct

The Gender Instincts described in Romantic Dynamics are simple to understand if you view biology that is enduring over time as more powerful than the small ups and downs of sociology, which is so dependent on cultural differences in brief moments in time.

We discuss instincts as being unconscious, automatic drivers of behavior that occur whenever we are not fully paying attention, with that universal skill of personal growth, Observing [Read more...] about Gender Instincts

Goals and success at getting to them are really, the only way to actually gain more control over the world, instead of suffering. This new control is defined simply - by an expansion of the size of your personal boundary, by actually reaching a goal. Now you control the goal. Goals are crucial to intellectual attraction and partnership, and so mastery of them is essential to a long term relationship. [Read more...] about Goals

In addition, the uniqueness of our own attachments and identifications with our specific and unique parents, and the random lot we have been given in being born to our particular parents will result in tendencies of being intellectually attracted to particular kinds of people with traits similar to our opposite sex parent, and to having made part of our core character tendencies, similar traits of our same sex parent. This [Read more...] about Golden Virtue

In a committed relationship or partnership, there is a relative overlap of one partner's personal boundary with that of another. The areas outside the overlap are essentially, the two partners' private selves, with their private thoughts, emotions, plans, decisions, actions outside the awareness of the other, and of course the place where one's personal life's goals ("mission in life" or "purpose in life") reside. The area inside the overlap is [Read more...] about Goldilocks Zone

This virtue is something that we tend to focus on only when in desperate need, but those of high character have learned to make it an automatic habit. There is a very good reason for this, if you think about the relationship between two people, where one takes more of a parental, unconditional love stance on providing confidence to the other, and the other takes more of a student role, [Read more...] about Gratitude

A masochistic, or passive-aggressive mode of dispensing with one's anxiety, by dumping it onto others, and doing them harm. In this vein, it is destructive and "win/lose" in nature, and is seen in the upper right branch of the Anxiety Map, under, "masochism."

Alternatively, if justly applied it is feedback to others who have done you harm, which produces anxiety in them, and causes them hopefully to fill up a [Read more...] about Guilt