The Virtual School of Romance
Lamia was a beautiful queen of Libya who became a child-eating daemon. Aristophanes claimed her name derived from the Greek word for gullet, referring to her habit of devouring children. The Lamia Instinct includes the darkest of natures in women's instincts, more so than even the destructive Medusa, who developed her evil out of having been assaulted and robbed of dignity, herself. That Lamia kills children speaks to the self-destructive impulse [Read more...] about Lamia Instinct
A type of data-processing, where our style of using data is analytical, logical, organized, history-oriented, and goal-directed. It is the opposite of being "right-brained," and an intellectual style that is good when partnered with a right-brained person.
Usually for men or those who are masculine, this special, life-long goal is a profound one for a person. It springs from their very identity, and is sufficient to see a person through, all the way to their goals. And even through great trouble, conflict or crisis. This is one of those unique features of psychology that plays into both sexual attraction, by way of femininity, and intellectual attraction, by [Read more...] about Life Mission
Usually for women or those who are feminine, this special, life-long goal is a profound one for a person. It springs from their very identity, and is sufficient to see a person through, all the way to their goals. And even through great trouble, conflict or crisis. This is one of those unique features of psychology that plays into both sexual attraction, by way of femininity, and intellectual attraction, by way [Read more...] about Life Purpose
Limerance is a sense of mystery and wonder about another person, for whom one feels both desire, and the beginnings of love and friendship. Within it, there is limited information about the nature of the other person as yet, and we tend to voluntarily "project" our ideals, dreams and fantasies onto the other person, ignoring, or not knowing of their flaws.
This is the psychological term that is the closest [Read more...] about Limerance
One of the two types of negative emotional energies (stress), that come at us from outside our personal boundary. The other is called, "hurt."
The first line of defense against this negative energy and a force of unhappiness, is the personal boundary itself, trying to block the stress.
Loss is a threat or loss or a real loss, and may be emotional, such as the negative, destructive threats of a [Read more...] about Loss
A temperament of personality, in which one is "right-brained" (creative) and nurturing, emotionally, or maternal in nature, regardless of gender. It is a major component of emotional attraction in phase two of courtship and of emotional and intellectual compatibility in courtship. There may be some overflow into Character Compatibility in intellectual attraction, although this may not bear a direct connection to Commonalities of Committment or Skills of Commitment within it.
A temperament of personality, in which one is "right-brained" (creative) and nurturing, emotionally, or maternal in nature, regardless of gender. It is a major component of emotional attraction in phase two of courtship and of emotional and intellectual compatibility in courtship. There may be some overflow into Character Compatibility in intellectual attraction, although this may not bear a direct connection to Commonalities of Committment or Skills of Commitment within it.
Lust is a common term used for Sexual Attraction, at least in terms of the passionate feelings involved.
Sexual Attraction is the first phase of human courtship is governed by the functions of the Reptilian Brain, which is the software of the mind that rules the operations of the unconscious, the instincts and reflexes, pertains both to the functions of the physical body, and to the deepest sense of self and [Read more...] about Lust
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