Character Compatibility is a different harmony between partners than an alignment of personality styles, or of polarity of masculinity and femininity. It goes far beyond shared interests, to be sure. Since Phase 3 of Courtship - Teamwork, Partnership, and Commitment - are about aligning to be a successful team at getting to joint goals in intellectual attraction. Then the compatibility we are talking about must be about a joint encouragement [Read more...] about Character Compatibility
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Charlatanry
Like intellectual Bombast or physical Abdication, which are vices about sabotaging a partner's status at the cost of our own success, "faking it" behavior, or Charlatanry is a character "vice of deficit of Competence" that sees one as being the essence of "win/lose" or destructive in a way our grandmothers might have advised us to "not cut of your nose to spite your face." Only in this case, it [Read more...] about Charlatanry